I am sure that you have looked in the mirror and wished that you could change specific areas or things about yourself? I know I have! You probably feel as though your self confidence is lacking because you find yourself constantly picking yourself apart. You may not be happy with your bone structure, your weight, or your facial features. May be you don’t like the type of hair you have, or you are not happy with your teeth. How about your breasts? Plenty of women are totally unhappy about this area of their body and constantly look for ways to improve their breasts.
If you do feel like this you are at least not experiencing these feelings alone. Just about everyone, at some point in their life begins to start questioning their looks. This self deprecating is often because you are looking to get compliments from others. Sometimes it can really be because you are feeling less attractive than those people around you.
There is no reason for anyone to live a life feeling unattractive all of the time. You are experiencing these feelings not just because you want to feel more attractive, you desire to be more attractive. There is absolutely no reason why you cannot be! Beauty is infectious when the person you are around feels good about themselves, in the same way as a person with a happy personality infects those around them.
You can influence others who are with you as seeing you as the beautiful person you are, you just need to change certain things about your behavior. These will be things that provide concrete beauty enhancements for you and not fabricated ones.
As much as you would love to, you simply can’t put out a wish to wake up in the morning and suddenly feel wonderful about how you look. No one is going to suddenly wake up and become a super model overnight!
Things just do not work that way. You have to be prepared to go through a process where you recognize and deal with the thoughts that are becoming an obstacle for your beauty. You then need to learn how to replace these thoughts with affirmations and take appropriate steps to help you achieve your beauty goals. Then you will end up feeling good about yourself again.
This will take time and effort on your part and the next couple of articles on this blog will help walk you through the steps you can take to accomplish this.